Wednesday, January 17, 2018

Growing up so fast

I wanted to document Hadley's milestones so I figured I would do it here:

Newborn: Hadley cluster fed only at night, I felt like I could not keep up. She would eat, and then 10 minutes later wanted to eat all over again. I didnt feel like I was producing the milk she wanted/needed so we would supplement during this time because she was just wanting to eat way too much. She would wake up at night every 3-4 hours at night to eat. She liked being held be her mom. Mom and dad were very exhausted during this time. 

1 Month: Hadley sleeps majority of the night, which has been a relief for mom and dad. she has learned to smile, but still does not bounce in her bounce toy. Has been difficult to feed, since I still feel that I cant keep up.

2 Months: Has had some sleep regression. Wakes up around 4-5am to feed. Can jump and play and bounce toy, and can finally entertain herself in it. Smiles lots! recognizes figures in mirror. In this month Hadley stopped breastfeeding and wanted the bottle, which made mom super frustrated. Had to start pumping more. loves playing with her daddy.

3 Months: Wakes up 2-3 times a night to be fed, so continuation of sleep regression. Now prefers breastfeeding over bottle. Krishelle is babysitting now since I went back to work. Loves to chew on Mr. bug on her jungle bounce toy and loves to jump. smiles, giggles, and lets out big screeches. Has been super difficult for Briar to Watch Hadley on weekends when I have to work. Briar made me call in sick on Fathers day. Hadley has been crying a lot and it is super hard and frustrating for us. she has started to grab things and is drooling like crazy.

4 Months: Still wakes up 2-3 times a night especially when she is sick. Loves other people and her toys. Plays independently real well. Can roll back and forth. Still smiles and laughs a lot. 95% in weight, height, and head circumference. still loves bouncing and Mr. bug. Hates getting her nose cleaned but loves getting her ears cleaned. Talks your ear off and has mastered the fake cry.

5 Months: wakes 2 times a night unless on vacation, then its 1-2 hours. can sit self up, almost able to crawl but now quite there yet. Still loves bouncing, but no longer loves Mr. Bug. Likes to nap with mom in the morning. Has eyes for mom and dad and turns towards us when we talk. Easts puree at night and especially loves banana. VERY messy eater. Doesn't expect to be held all the time. Rolls everywhere. Flirt with her Daddy using shoulder. loves her toys. Doesnt care for pacifier. Has 2 bottoms teeth that came in. would explain her sicknesses and runny noses. 

6 Months: Crawls everywhere and can stand self up on everything. Harasses mom by trying to crawl up her legs and wanting to suck on electronics. Is not afraid of danger. Falls often and gets cuts and bruises. Mom and Dad try really hard to keep her safe but she is persistent on exploring. Eats Puree and dissolvable snacks 2x a day. Still only has 2 bottom teeth. Is starting to nap better. Takes 3 a day, and has lately only been waking up once at night, but use to wake up every 3-4 hours. Sleeps in until 8 or 9, which has been awesome. Hadley loves it when Dad gets home. Has grown out of 6 month clothes. 

7 Months: Is teething, upper left side tooth (next to where middle teeth should be) popped through on 09/19/16. Wakes up once a night and sometimes 0 times a night. Loves mom, and hates it when men hold her. Still is standing up and holding on to items like our couch. 

8 Months: Beginning of this month two top side teeth, left middle tooth on top, and two bottom middle teeth are present. crawls, stand and walks while holding onto furniture. shares food with mom and dad. screams when ice cream is gone. Says bababababa a lot, and wakes up 1-2 times a night still. She is hard to get a picture of since she is always moving. Laughs and loves playing. Baby proofing since she is pulling down stools and everything pretty much down. cries at strange men. still eats puree twice a day but eats snacks and sometimes part of moms meal. Sucks on her thumb. Full of energy. At the end of month 8 Hadley is starting to climb on things and can take 3 steps. She can stand all on her own for about 8 seconds. She screams and talks to mom and dad a lot (bababababa.) Wakes up 1-2 times a night. She likes to play the game where you chase her. Cries with men she is unfamiliar with (Gpa Casper.) Eats people food in small bites. Goes to sleep fast for naps. Has 4 top middle teeth and two middle bottom. 

9 Months: Beginning of this month Hadley was grinding her teeth and swishing spit. her size 12 month clothes are getting tight, except for pants - too long. She can stick her tongue out. moves head side to side with music at the end of 9 months. Does not cry as much when in her car seat. Can travel all 4 hours in car. Wakes up once a night around 2-3am. Needs item to pull herself up and then she can walk. Weighs 22 lbs at last appointment.

10 Months: Waves goodbye. Started to flick her since she knows when she is being naughty. knows what come here means and go to mom or dad. Can finally sleep through the night (probably because we have a noise maker for us so we cant hear her - don't judge.) Is starting to get an attitude. Yells at us when she is hungry, tired, or wanting out of her high chair. Bounces head side to side and front to back with music. Walks everywhere - done crawling! says mama. Loves Gpas' and Gmas'. Still hesitant around men. Loves playing with other kids. Can say "Hi" very clearly. 

11 Months: Loves to dance. Climbs upward to be high. Likes to laugh with/at Daddy. Still breastfeeding, but I am starting to slow down. take 2-3 short naps daily, like 45 min-1 hour. Loves playing on stairs and being independent. Stomps her feet and cries when we take something from her. Has a big attitude, but it is pretty cute. 

12 Months: Takes 2 naps daily, one is longer than the other. She is getting so smart.

16 Months: Hadley runs and avoids me when she sees a diaper in my hand to change her. She cries when I take her into her room for a nap (takes 2 naps, sometimes just 1.) Listens to some of my commands (trowing away diaper.) gives hugs and kisses. clings to gram. Says Thank You.

18 Months: Says Jessica, Thank You, hi, mama, papa, mommy/daddy

23 Months: Can pretty much say anything we ask her to say, but it doesn't come out that clear. She understands majority of my commands. She has become a very picky eater. She will eat peanut butter, jam, mac and cheese, and dino-nuggets really well, but that is pretty much it. She doesn't even try it but she refuses it (VERY frustrating.) She can count to 3, we are still working on getting to 10. She loves loves loves barney, and will watch Sofia the first but loves barney way more. Is in size 2T. Still hates getting diaper changed - time to potty train! She has and can crawl out of her crib, but doesn't (thankfully.) Obsessed with shoes and will finally wear her new slippers since she saw that blakely got some slippers for Christmas and was wearing them. She decided slippers are cool.

We love our Hadders so much and can't believe she is going to be turning two. 

...a year later

I'm so lame. It has already been a year since I last blogged, and I have so much to catch up on. I don't really know where to start, so I will start at the beginning and just go over the big events. Hadley had a wonderful 1st birthday party held at our house. We had dinner and dessert and opened presents with her family around. She loves all of her Grandpas and Grandmas. Sometimes it feels like she loves her grandmas over her mom. She always will choose them over me, hahaha its okay, I love that she loves them so much!

We had Priest Lake again this summer, beginning of August. Priest Lake is always a party. We had so much fun seeing family and spending some time with them. I hate that everyone lives so far away. I only get to see some of my siblings 1-2 times a year, so it's a big party when we do all get to come together. We played some good ol' beach volleyball and spike ball. My parents also rented a jet ski that we got to go out on the lake. As a kid when we would go to Priest Lake, we would tube all day, now I find myself wanting to just relax and enjoy soaking up the sun. Being a mom has also played a huge impact in that as well, not just age. My parents also bought a blow up hot tub that we all race to get into once the cover comes off, since there are limited seats. I am so thankful for my grandparents for providing a wonderful cabin, where I have made some of my most favorite memories. Hadley was old enough to play in the sand and sit on the paddle board with her mom. I love watching her being able to grow and develop and do things that she wasn't able to do the year before. She loves playing with her cousin Blakely who is only a few months older. I love my family and cant wait to see everyone again next summer. 



Hadley was so excited to see Santa. When she saw him, her face lit up. She grabbed my mom's hand and dragged her to the stage where he was sitting at the ward Christmas party. She was smiling and wanted so go see him. When it was her turn, she hesitantly walked up to him. She got scared and starting frowning, but no tears came. She sat on his lap and bravely waved back at us. Santa gave her a bag of treats that made her feel better. I was so proud of her for being so brave!
This year was Christmas on the Casper side, so my family decided to spend it at the lake, since we love the lake. Jessica was unable to make it, we missed her a lot. We started out sledding down the driveway hill, but Tyler M. found this other hill that was quite the hill to walk up and intense coming down. A few people hit trees and I even had a branch hit my eye, but it was fun and worth it. Some of the men documented coming down it with their phones. It was a blast and by the end of the week, the kids were even going down it. 
It was magical watching the kids see what Santa had brought them. I loved watching how excited they were. Hadley got some coloring stuff, dress and shoes, and bubbles from Santa. She loved what she got, but she doesn't understand it all quite yet. I cant wait until she learns about Santa.
Once again we set up the hot tub. It was so cool sitting in it surrounded by snow. I love hot tubs!
We ate a ton of food and treats. At night we would play games and watch movies. We also had some intense games of Mario-Cart on Nintendo 64, definitely brought back some old memories. On Christmas Eve we went to Newport/Priest River Sunday Christmas Program. It was beautiful and we were all impressed with the performances that were given. It was a wonderful introduction to Christmas. 
Prior to Christmas we had a christmas party at the Berry's shop, it was good seeing family and meeting some of Briar' relative. We had some competitive games that brought everyone's crazy sides out 😉
We also had a dinner with the Carlisle's at my house. We opened presents together and got to spend some quality time together which was very nice. It was sad not seeing them on Christmas day, but this kind of helped make up for it. 







Right now we are kind of unsure what life has in store for us. Briar is currently unemployed and I am working twice a week at Lourdes hematology/oncology clinic. We are unsure if we will stay in this, area (hope so) but I have absolutely loved the year we have spent here close to family and friends. We hope 2018 will be just as good to us.